ADHD is largely known for the popular symptoms of impulsivity, hyperactivity, and inattention. Most people think of a young boy who can't sit still, and who is constantly getting in trouble. But that's just not it. Things get complicated, particularly because these symptoms are more suggestive that something is going on.
Yes, these symptoms can suggest that someone is struggling with ADHD. But these symptoms are also present among far too many other conditions, medical illnesses, and psychological stressors than I can list right now.
Here's just a partial list:
Depression Bipolar Anxiety PTSD
And that's only the "psychological" conditions.
Dirty Little Secret Revealed
ADHD is actually a diagnosis of exclusion. In other words, when these symptoms present, your child's treating professional should be focusing on ruling out all these other possible conditions. But unfortunately, not many of us are taught to do this. Instead, we follow a checklist approach to diagnosing. If the symptoms are present, that's what it must be... At least that's the popular line of thinking.
This is why I encourage people to focus on their child's behaviors more than getting caught up on the symptoms, the labels, and the diagnosis. Children who are different shatter the mold, so why create a label or category to try and fit them back in?
Even when we think it is ADHD, there could be so many different things going on and contributing to how we experience the symptoms.
Clearly, it helps to have an idea that something is going on. But after that, we owe it to our children to raise them and help them to achieve whatever they want, to go after whatever is possible, and whatever they are willing to reach for.
Bottom Line? A child with ADHD needs the tools, resources, supports, and understanding to be successful in school and in life. I'd like to help with that! Download your free ADHD Essentials Audio Kit today, and you'll get immediate access to information and strategies that will make a difference.
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